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Hey so this is my third time trying to make a character into an actual good build but every single time I’ve gotten to the beginning of endgame it all starts falling apart and I am genuinely not sure why, I’ve followed guides, looked up tips, looked at videos to see what even classifies as good gear and it always falls apart not long after starting maps, it’s always either one of three things that happens: I can do a decent amount of damage but that’s after using nearly all of my skills to debuff/buff but I have no survivability, good survivability but really low damage, or just flat out neither of those, or it ends up leading to that in the end, I don’t want to just flood this channel with every stat and piece of equipment I have, so if you have any advice or want to see something please let me know, I just want to enjoy the game again